Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Yoga at the Ocean, Retreat 2014

L to R: Claire Howard, Katie Berge and Joy Lyons

The sun was warm, and Joy Lyons' face glowed with, well, JOY, as she practically skipped her way through the campground. Dripping in my wetsuit, longboard in hand, I asked her how her afternoon was going. Her eyes sparkling, this long-time yoga student who recently had struggled with family/work/fun balance, explained that she and a few new friends had just climbed the giant sand dune that shadows the beach at Cape Kiwanda, on Oregon's central coast. "It was hard," she said. "And it was awesome!"


Kong's Head at sunset
Laughing, I shared the sentiment. The surf outsized my own comfort zone that day, and I'd just returned from a challenging session that started with a tough paddle through persistent whitewater but ended in a rewarding overhead ride that shot me to shore in a stoke-boosting rush. "That's it!" I told Joy. "It’s the perfect theme for our weekend. Hard. And. Awesome."

Joy Lyons was among 12 participants at my "Yoga at the Ocean" retreat Oct. 3-5. The quaint seaside town, framed by Cape Kiwanda on the north and Nestucca far to the south, is beloved for its views of the west coast’s largest monolith, a giant rock a mile offshore that locals call Kong's Head and map makers label Haystack Rock. Surfers love PC for the cape that shields north winds and sets ups a sweet ride when the swell hits right. With campground cabins and a clubhouse right across the street from the beach, PC is the perfect spot for my retreat, now officially "annual" with two years completed and plans for a third, Oct. 2-4, 2015.


L to R: Maggie Evanson, Claire Smith and Jeff Wagner
The 11 women and one man who registered knew they would be challenged. At our opening circle Friday evening, each shared a perception about her/his relationship with the ocean. Biggest on the fear list was whether the wetsuit would seriously guard against the Pacific's chilly waters. Yes! (My assurance was easy to offer, as a warm swell had upped the water temperature from a usual 50 degrees to almost 60.) A few had trepidations about stepping into a forceful ocean with unknown elements. We talked about using the experience as a metaphor for moments in life when we need to step into our fear with confidence, trusting our strength and our skills. And that same ocean that could knock us down could also cradle us and wash away our tensions, some noted. Its vastness provides perspective to the troubles in our lives. The conversation stayed away from where we work, our kids, responsibilities. These souls were ready to play with their planet--and each of them was all-in!
New friends united by yoga and a love of water
Our yoga sessions at the Cape Kiwanda RV Resort clubhouse were set to surfer tunes and offered plenty of opportunities to practice "popping up" and taking a surfer's stance on our yoga mats. We stretched and strengthened our paddling muscles and imagined ourselves swimming through a glassy sea and crouching "in the barrel" of a wave. Recognizing the power of "mirror neurons," which can alter body chemistry when one body mimics the motions of another, I knew that pretend surfing could build almost as much stoke as the real thing. Our funky little clubhouse positively buzzed with energy and was a cozy home for practice, meals, early morning meditations--and suiting up to hit the surf.
Maggie Evanson

The actual ocean waves that weekend were potent, bigger than I had "special ordered," but a good example of how we can't always get what we want but we can choose to climb aboard or instead complain--oh, how the ocean can teach! Theodore Roosevelt famously said, “Nothing in the world is worth having or worth doing unless it means effort, pain, difficulty… I have never in my life envied a human being who led an easy life. I have envied a great many people who led difficult lives and led them well.”

Throughout the weekend, the yogi surfers washed away some personal troubles. A few brave souls dove in with only their bathing suits! We chanted Om to an epic sunset and burned our intentions into a campfire. Small groups took turns traveling to Tillamook for paddle board yoga on a warm lake with a local friend of mine, Jodie Dodge. And the weekend ended with a windy sunset (easy on the eyes but tough on the biceps) "Serenity Paddle" at the mouth of the Salmon River near Lincoln City.
Laughs after a SUPer time on the lake

My husband, Matt, and I offered 1-on-1 surf lessons, and all 12 yogis suited up to ride on long boards, boogie boards or just their bellies at some point during the retreat. Sue Barham, a regular student and member at Elements of Health, walked out with me through some pretty rough shore pound. We barely got her turned around on my long board in time, but Sue belly-rode a beastly wave like a rodeo queen all the way to the beach while I floundered in the whitewater worrying that I'd just broken one of my best students. No worries; stoked and smiling she turned back to the sea to paddle out for more.  "I want to do that again!"

It was hard....and awesome.


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